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Probate & estate questions, answered with straight talk from 25+ years in LA real estate.

Toni Patillo, Broker Associate

"Families going through probate, trust, and estate situations ask me the same questions over and over, so here are my honest answers in plain language. Every situation is different, so treat these as general guideposts, never as legal advice. I always recommend pairing my guidance with a good probate attorney."

Toni Patillo, Broker Associate

The questions I hear most

Twelve honest answers from the front lines of probate real estate in Los Angeles and Southern California.

01

What happens to a house when someone dies in California?

When someone passes away, their house doesn't automatically belong to the next person. The way it transfers depends on how it was owned. If the home was in a living trust, held in joint tenancy, or covered by a transfer-on-death deed, it can pass directly to the named people without court involvement. If not, the estate often goes through probate, where the court supervises the transfer. If there is no will, California's intestate succession laws decide who inherits. During that process, the executor or administrator has to decide whether to sell, keep, or transfer the property, and every decision is made in service of the estate and its beneficiaries.

02

Do I need probate to sell a house in California?

Not always, and it's one of the first things we figure out together. If the estate qualifies for one of California's small-estate procedures, or if the home passes outside probate through a trust, joint tenancy, or transfer-on-death deed, the sale may not need any court involvement. When probate is required, the sale is typically subject to court approval, and for most probate home sales there's a court confirmation hearing where the final price can be overbid. It adds steps and time, but it also keeps everything transparent and protects the heirs.

03

Can we sell Mom's house before probate finishes?

In most cases, yes, but only once the right person has the legal authority. That usually means the executor or administrator has been appointed by the court, or has the powers they need under the Independent Administration of Estates Act, which lets an estate act without asking the court about every single step. Before anyone is appointed, there is simply no one with the authority to sign a listing agreement or accept an offer on behalf of the estate. Once that authority is in place, an experienced team can move the sale along while the rest of the probate case continues in the background.

04

Should we sell the inherited home, keep it, or rent it out?

This is the question I hear more than any other, and the honest answer is that there is no single right choice. Selling gives the family liquidity and a clean break, and for many families that's the closure they need. Keeping the home preserves the legacy and can pay off over time, but it means carrying taxes, insurance, upkeep, and the emotional weight of it. Renting generates income, but it makes the heirs landlords in the middle of their grief. The right answer comes from laying the numbers and the feelings side by side, and that's exactly what I help families do.

05

What if my siblings disagree about selling the family home?

Disagreements over the family home are incredibly common, and they're usually as much about grief and memory as they are about money. The best first step is a real conversation with the numbers in front of everyone: current value, what it costs to carry the house, what a sale would net after taxes and fees, and what each sibling actually wants long term. Many families find common ground once the full picture is on the table. If agreement truly isn't possible, California law provides formal paths, including a partition action where a court can order a sale and divide the proceeds, but those are slow, expensive, and can strain relationships for years. A neutral professional who has been through this before can often help you find a path you can't see from inside the conflict.

06

How long does probate take in Los Angeles County?

Plan for more time than you'd like. Los Angeles County has one of the busiest probate courts in the state, and even a straightforward estate typically takes well over a year from filing to closing, with more complex estates often running 18 to 24 months. Court calendars, the creditor waiting period, tax clearances, and any disputes all push the timeline out. What families can control is organization: complete the inventory early, file paperwork on time, and keep every step moving even while you wait between hearings. That's where a knowledgeable local team earns its keep.

07

What's the difference between a probate sale and a trust sale?

A probate sale happens when the property belongs to an estate that's being administered through the court. The sale is usually subject to court confirmation, which brings extra paperwork, a hearing, and the possibility of overbidding. A trust sale happens outside the court system: the trustee holds title and can sell directly, so the transaction behaves much more like a normal real estate sale, which usually means a faster timeline and fewer moving parts. Both require careful attention to taxes, deadlines, and the rights of beneficiaries, but the pace and flexibility are genuinely different.

08

What is a probate referee and how does the appraisal work?

Early in a probate case, the court assigns a probate referee, a licensed appraiser who prepares the official inventory and appraisal of the estate's assets, including real estate. That court valuation matters because it determines the estate's value for probate purposes, which affects everything from whether the estate stays supervised to how statutory attorney and executor fees are calculated. One thing worth understanding: the referee's number is a court valuation, not the same as a real estate agent's market analysis, and the actual sale price can end up higher or lower.

09

Do we have to clean out the house before listing it?

You don't need an empty house to list it, but the goal is to present it in the best possible light for buyers. In practice, families usually want to sort through belongings before showings start, and that process can take longer and carry more emotion than anyone expects. Tackling it deliberately, deciding early what to keep, what to donate, and what to sell, makes the whole process gentler. Just remember that the personal property belongs to the estate, and there are rules about who can take what and how it can be distributed, so it's worth being thoughtful rather than rushed.

10

What happens to the mortgage and property taxes after someone dies?

The mortgage doesn't go away when the owner dies. It becomes an obligation of the estate, and it's paid from estate funds, from the sale, or by family members who decide to keep the home. Federal law protects heirs in many cases from having to pay off the loan immediately, letting qualifying family members assume or continue the payments. Property taxes are a separate and important question. California's Proposition 19 changed the reassessment rules for inherited homes: in many transfers, the home is reassessed at its current market value and the tax bill can rise unless the heirs qualify for one of the exclusions, which come with strict deadlines. Capital gains can also come into play when the home is sold. These rules are detailed, but they're very navigable with the right guidance and enough lead time.

11

Can we sell a house with tenants in it?

Yes, homes with tenants sell all the time, but the tenancy changes how you approach it. The lease generally survives the owner's death, and in Los Angeles both rent control rules and just-cause eviction protections apply: a tenant can't be removed simply because the owner passed away. Some buyers want vacant possession, which may mean waiting for the lease to run or negotiating a fair buyout, while others are happy to step into the landlord's shoes, especially when the rent roll is solid. Selling with tenants is very doable; it just shapes the pricing, the timeline, and the disclosures.

12

What are the most common mistakes families make in probate real estate?

In my 25-plus years I've seen the same patterns repeat. Letting the house sit vacant with no plan while holding costs pile up. Letting the homeowners insurance lapse on an empty property. Missing court deadlines or filing paperwork late. Acting on the property before anyone has legal authority to do so. Making big financial decisions out of grief, pressure, or sibling rivalry. And ignoring the tax deadlines that come with inherited property, especially the Proposition 19 clock. Almost all of these are avoidable with a clear plan and the right team from day one, which is exactly the support I provide.

Still have a question?

Every family's situation is different. If your question isn't covered here, ask me directly. I'm happy to point you in the right direction, no pressure and no obligation.